Dating girls who like anal sex
Recently I came across an article posted on the Urban Dater written by a woman who just doesn’t believe women can actually enjoy anal sex.She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes of encouraging more women to spread their cheeks for the dicks of men everywhere.In 2010, the Journal of Sexual Medicine published the results of a national sex survey stating 20 percent of women in their 20s and 30s copped to having anal sex within the past year, with one-third of those women having had it within the past month. Anal sex outscored cunnilingus.” Of course, correlation doesn’t equate causation.But maybe you believe that one in every five women is faking it in order to look cool. “Among women who had vaginal sex in their last encounter, the percentage who said they reached orgasm was 65. Some folks theorize that it is the orgasms (resulting from oral, manual or vaginal sex) that satisfy and relax women enough for them to be open to anal penetration, rather than the anal sex that is causing orgasms. If people are happy and fucking and coming, who are we to tell them they’re not actually enjoying themselves?
So yeah, I vote with my vag in cases like those and instead choose to fuck people who are more comfortable with themselves, which is my prerogative as well as the author’s in selecting our respective partners.Some women report masturbating anally on their own or engaging in anal penetration with female partners, meaning it is possible to achieve pleasure from anal sex that has nothing to do with the involvement of men.Then there are women like me who self-identify as masochists and for whom anal sex is enjoyable precisely because it is an act of suffering.That doesn’t make it any less valid a form of enjoyment.Many humans of all genders take immense pleasure in seeing the person they’re fucking having a grand time.