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That would get pretty annoying pretty quick, wouldn’t it? These men are expressing frustration with the fact that they put the niceness coins into what they view as essentially an organic machine, and sex didn’t fall out — as they expected it to. And they never even notice the most glaring aspect of this whole analogy — that the niceness coins were counterfeit — try to buy women’s affection using a counterfeit currency of a fake virtue, then they turn around and have the audacity to blame women when their scheme didn’t work.
HELPING YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELY It’s hard to see the red flags when there is only one guy on the horizon.To put it in more philosophically descriptive terms, the niceness was only a secondary condition, a conditional property, and instrumental utility of the expectations implied in the niceness — the niceness wouldn’t have happened without the expectation, and once these guys get rejected, they often turn vicious, enraged, degrading, and even violent.They retort, calling women all sorts of degrading names to reclaim their bruised ego and sense of injured pride and merit. Let me explain…Human interactions aren’t transactions. Women aren’t vending machines that we put niceness coins into and sex magically falls out.THE RIGHT WAY TO TAKE THINGS SLOWLY Everyone tells you to “take things slow,” but how on Earth are you supposed to do that when you’re head over heels for someone? There’s no point in trying to slow things down with a man when he’s the only one you’re dating. But if you keep dating other men, you are instantly able to take it slowly.Your schedule is busy with other dates and activities so that you’re automatically not always available to any one man, and it also gives you time to catch your breath and reflect on what he is revealing to you about himself.