Metaphor of baseball and dating
The four relationship bases When you’re talking to your partner it’s a lot easier to describe your level of sexual experience by using bases.You should know there is no official definition for what each base represents. First base is kissing *including French kissing*, maybe some fingers through the hair, but nothing really extreme.first: the first step in a sexual relationship kissing with an open mouth or using tongue (french kissing) first and a half base: under the shirt, bra still on second: one step up from first base, heavy petting and feeling up while making out,direct oral or manual stimulation of a partner's breast/nipple, up the shirt or shirtless for both partners.shortstop: in baseball, the shortstop is the field position between second and third base.
Here’s everything you need to know about relationship bases and the baseball metaphors for sex. It’s more like testing the waters with a little fun kissing session.
But since you Googled “what are the bases in dating” you must either be a non-US citizen or eight years old, in which case you should be quick as your older brother might get into the room and you’ll have to endure years of getting made fun of brutally for this search. But in case you’re not from the North American continent or Japan and have the luck of not knowing anything about baseball, this terminology can be too confusing and you end up knowing only that something sexual happened between two people. Baseball is a deeply complicated game with a lot of “ifs” and “but ifs” so it cannot be explained in great detail here, nor is that why you are here for.
But you need to know some rules of this sport so you can understand the metaphor.
So, in fooling around, shortstop is being masturbated by or masturbating your partner, as that's between feeling up and oral sex.
third base: the last base before penetration sex, entailing contact with the main sexual regions, a handjob or a blowjob (fellatio) for guys and fingering or giving head (cunnilingus) to the girl home base: reaching home base or fourth base is consumating the relationship by having vaginal sex, making love or fucking NOTE:first or second base can be achieved concurrently with dry humping, considered third base when oral or manual stimulation occurs to genitals.